ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING Summary

ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING: Change Your Attitude ... Change Your Life!

Author:- JEFF KELLER

Jeff Keller is a motivational speaker and a bestseller author of America. According to Jeff Keller, we can control our lives by changing our attitude. Our attitude towards our lives define the result we get in our lives. Attitude is the window through which we see the world and more clean this window is, the better lives we live.

Further in this ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING SUMMARY, we will learn the meaning of attitude and the difference between positive and negative attitude and then we will talk about the key points presented by Jeff Keller in ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING and then we will move onto the ways by which we can make a positive attitude so we can get a happy and prosperous life. I will include a few of the ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING QUOTES this book ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING.


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Let's, first of all, discuss the meaning of attitude. Attitude is defined as the way by which we look at the world and the situations that come into our life. It is our perspective towards our life. While few people look towards a life with a positive attitude while others have a negative attitude.

Understand it with an example, there were two friends John and Mike.
John always says that "I can", he concentrate on the solutions, he always looks for the good things in others, in every situation he looks at the possibility of success, he counts on the blessings.
on the other hand in the same situations mike use to say "I can't", he dwells in the problems, he uses to find faults with the others, he focuses on what is missing and see only the limitations.
This the difference between a person with a positive attitude and a person with a negative attitude.


Before moving further in this  ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING SUMMARY in want to tell you an inspiring story of the author, Jeff Keller.

THE NIGHT THAT CHANGED MY LIFE.....

Since childhood, Jeff wanted to become a lawyer and in the 1980s he completed his graduation from the law college. He married his classmate and he was living a happy life, but a few years later he realized that the career was actually not that exciting and he started feeling dissatisfied with his life. He started living a very depressing life and he had lost all his charm and the glow of his face.

When he turned 30 one night when he was thinking about his life and thought "it is enough, in my life, there must be something more than this unending unhappiness and regret". That day when he was thinking about all this he saw an ad of a mental bank on the T.V. Mental bank was a home study course that explained hoe everything we achieve in life is based upon our subconscious beliefs. He thought that that course can change his life, he pulled out his credit card and he ordered a course and this becomes the turning point of his life.

He was very excited to learn the ideas of that course because before that day he had not read such kind of things. After that, he started many self-help and motivational books and he was feeling like that, he was lost in a desert and now suddenly he had discovered a river of sweet water. From that day he started acquiring a positive attitude and he had achieved many good things in his life. After that, he started giving motivational lectures with his career, and in 1992 he dropped his law practice and started as a full-time motivational speaker. After that, he started living a happy life and he was enjoying his life and career. He couldn't have this great change in his life if he had not understood the power of attitude.

Before writing this book Jeff Keller did research on human behavior and why some people achieve their desired results in their life and some got only setbacks.

Before moving to its key ideas I want to tell you, if you apply these ideas you can also live your desired happy life.

KEY IDEA 1: YOUR ATTITUDE IS YOUR WINDOW TO THE WORLD

when a small kid starts walking. He fell many times but he does not give blame to the ground, he does not blame his parents for not telling him the right technique and he does not quit walking in spite of many falls and he smiles and again gives a try and one day he starts walking. His mental window is clear. But we all know then the time comes into our life when life starts throwing dust on our mental window and it starts becoming dirty. Our mental window becomes dirty when we get compared to others for not doing well in one field, it becomes dirty when people criticize us for our shortcomings, it becomes dirty when we get rejections and disappointment in our lives and we lose our positive attitude and beliefs on ourselves.

So it is very important for us that we should clear our mental window so our attitude can become positive and we can live a good life.

But here is a solution, according to the author we always have two choices, a positive attitude, to change our attitude and control our lives and start working for our goals and achieve them and a negative attitude, to live with the same dirty window and keep blaming the circumstances and not to change them.

let us understand the power of positive attitude from the story of Dr. Viktor frankly from his book 'Men's search for meaning'. Frankle was an American psychiatrist who had seen the hell on the earth during the holocaust by Nazi Germany. He was also in prison and except his sister, all of his family was dead in that holocaust. In that hell-like situation during the mass killing under Nazi Germany now think how a person can keep a positive attitude but he not only kept a positive attitude himself but also inspired millions of others to keep a positive attitude by his book 'Men's in search of meaning'. With his that positive attitude that one day he will see the happiness he survived in that holocaust.

So the author says, "ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING"

KEY IDEA 2: YOU ARE A HUMAN MAGNET.

   In the last summary, YOU ARE A BADASS SUMMARY we learned that the way we think we are, we become... or say our beliefs become our reality.

If we think we can... then this is our reality and if we think we can't then we set our reality in this way...

So what are the keys to success?

The author has divided the key to success in six words and you might be surprised to learn that the same six words are also the key to failure.

So here are these six words.

WE BECOME WHAT WE THINK ABOUT

As we all know that our thoughts become our actions and these actions give us results.

For example, Victor thinks that he can earn $30,000 USD then he will earn and now consider Victor thinks that for his family needs he has to earn $50,000 USD now there are chances if he can or cannot and this depends upon Victor's beliefs in him. If he thinks he can he will attract all the circumstances and opportunities like a human magnet and he will earn.

According to a study conducted by EARL NIGHTINGALE. He finds that all of the great writers, philosophers, and religious leaders have agreed that our thought determines our actions.
So if we keep an attitude that nothing bis impossible for us then it will become our reality that nothing will be impossible for us.

ATTITUDE Vs ACTION

It means that if we start our action with a negative attitude we will reach only that level where we will get a failure and after that, we will quit our journey, but on the other hand, if we start with a positive attitude then irrespective of every failure and setbacks we will achieve our goal. we will keep moving and we will achieve our goal.

Adversity brings out our hidden potential           - JEFF KELLER

Problems are the test of the strength of our desire to achieve our goal

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STEPS TO IMPROVE OUR THINKING AND TO MAKE IT POSITIVE:

Step one: Start reading some positive articles or book 15-20 minutes every day. It may be any self-help book, any biography of a successful person, any article that gives you some ideas to make your life better or any spiritual book.

Try to implement this idea in the morning. In the morning our mind is very much clear and whatever we learn gets easily imprint on our subconscious and our complete day gets filled with positive energy.

Step Two: Everyday watch some motivational video or audio program. Because the message we give to our brain regularly it becomes our belief and we start working in that way.

All this thing is essential for our mental health.

But one thing I want to make clear that positive thinking and its results are not something that you can achieve overnight. You have to keep patience and be consistent on your these habits.

KEY IDEA 3:  TURN YOUR PROBLEMS INTO OPPORTUNITIES.

In THE SUBTLE ART OF NOT GIVING A F*CK SUMMARY, we have learned that we have to take problems as the opportunities to learn something new.

                                    Problems are the opportunities in disguise.                                          

In the case of the author, if the author had not seen those troubles, he would have lost his chances to learn the great lessons in his life and his life would not have been better.

So every problem is something to teach us and to give us an opportunity that we can look into ourselves and we can upgrade ourselves.
You can read more about this in THE SUBTLE ART OF NOT GIVING A F*CK SUMMARY.


Now moving further Our words towards ourselves become your reality.
Take an example a boy Vikram who always thinks that he cannot become a good salesman and now this thing will become his reality and he will not take any action to become a good salesman and he will live with the same attitude. We can easily think about his future.
Second boy Rohit who also have the same qualification and he thinks that one day he will become the world's best salesman now he will start doing his action in that way he will improve his speaking skills, he will learn new ideas and he will improve himself and one day he will achieve his goal. So this is the power of attitude.
By thinking limited we restrict our actions.

Do not share your goals with negative people. They will fill you with all the negative beliefs that they have. Like it is impossible, you will face problems,  why you should not do this thing?
Keep yourself away from such negative people in our life. Better to say bye.
Always share your goals with the person who has achieved great results in that field or who have positive beliefs.

We all have seen many people around us who always use to say "I can't do this" "I will be unsuccessful", "I cannot improve things" by saying this they use to give there mind with the all those negative instructions and in this way they are living a depressing life.

In relationships, people keep an attitude like they will face many problems, people always take my advantage, In relations, there are many heartbreaks and all.

In finances, I can't earn that much money, I will be poor, I do not have the abilities.

These are the negative instructions people give to there brain and in that way, they live only that type of lifer. Why people do not think of the positive things that relationships are constructive things and we can achieve anything in this world.

Ever ask a person"how are u, buddy? and that person replied Oh ho I am very fine, and tell me how are you, now feel the positivity you feel in that person's response. On the other hand, if a person gives a dull response to you then feel how it makes your mood dull too.

COMFORT ZONE come out from it...

Take a step out of your comfort zone. Keep a positive attitude and we can achieve everything we want in our life.

                                ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING

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